Knock at the Door
by UCF Pastor Robbie Ousley
The pastor from a church just outside of town stopped by my house the other day as he was knocking on doors to invite potential newcomers to visit his church. He was personable enough to engage in conversation and the longer we talked the more insecure his own words seemed to make him.
I enjoy talking with anyone who is willing to reach outside their own circle to try to be a witness of faith. You can usually start off assuming that they love people because they are willing to step outside their walls to invite others in. Going door to door has gotten a bad rap over the years as it has been abused by some to try to force unsuspecting residents to participate in church (among other things). For that reason I don’t know that I would use door-to-door practices, but it’s alright for those who choose to do so. I tried it about 20 years ago without much success, probably because I’m not one to pressure people.
To unfamiliar ears, the pastor’s words may very well have been really inviting. There was motivation in his voice and his practiced witness rolled off the tongue like water over the edge of Niagara. I could tell that his stress level rose when he became comfortable enough to ask if I know I would go to heave if I die today. It’s obvious that he preaches earnestly to promote his congregation to ask others this question and forcefully directs the question to the congregation often, if not every service. I told him that I believe I would go to heaven if I died right now, purposefully not elaborating to see if the follow up question would come in the usual order of “witness training”.
Sure enough, the next words out of his mouth were; “How do you know that you would go to heaven when you die?” Making sure I wasn’t sounding stressed, threatened, or defensive I said, “By the blood of Jesus covering, and that’s all. Nothing else could save me.” As expected, my answer didn’t leave him anywhere to go with the salvation issue. As a good witness is suppose to do, the pastor went on trying to find other reasons I should visit his church. At that point it was not about bringing people to God, it was about getting me into his church; and that’s alright too.
If church is worth supporting and dedicating time and effort to, then it is worth inviting others to. Pastor told me the details of his church services and handed me a small pamphlet so I didn’t have to depend on memory (good thing). He asked if I attend church anywhere and tickled the denomination question a little bit. I responded very openly in kind concerning what churches I had grown up in and how relative they are to my beliefs now; while returning the favor by giving him my ministry card and inviting his church to be registered on Unidiversal.com. It was easy to see a bit of reverse witness stress so I tried to make him comfortable with it by letting him know that the purpose of registration is to help promote people’s interest in coming to his church by asking un-required questions that go beyond a brief, generic listing.
He was alright with my invitation even though we knew we aren’t from the same divisions of churches (him Baptist, me undenominational). I have to hand it to the guy, my invitation would have caused most to find a way to excuse themselves and get out of there fast to avoid cross-indoctrination. But he carried the conversation on and I’m glad about that. I believe my responsive witness was best served through patience and kindness and was reciprocated by the same. I wouldn’t have stayed engaged if the patience and kindness were not prevalent in our conversation; as I have seen many lose their demeanor when witness became reversed.
The pastor went on to share some of his churches beliefs; proudly highlighting “no women preachers” and that they would not have “anything resembling rock music” in his independent fundamental, solely Bible based church. It’s almost like a hunting trap in a forest of legalism, the Old Testament catch-22 of “Thou Shalt Not” laws. Just like I was taught in church growing up, if I couldn’t struggle with something that I was not to do then the purpose for the church, and my purpose for being there, is in question. If I am to be “saved and sanctified” then whatever might be popular in other churches or in secular culture must be driven out of my life and social circles. It’s such an antisocial perspective of the Bible with a twist that makes it “seem right to man” (Proverbs 14). It’s almost as if life doesn’t have purpose without these struggles.
Proverbs 14:
12 There is a way which seems right to a person, but the end thereof are the ways of death.
13 Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; and the end of that pleasure is heaviness.
14 The backslider in heart [unconvinced in understanding] shall be filled with his own ways: and a good man shall be satisfied from himself [limited to his own understanding].
15 The simple believeth every word: but the prudent person looks well to his going [closely where s/he is going].
16 A wise person fears [has reservations], and departs from evil: but the fool rages [on and on], and is confident.
No less friendly and no more frayed for the wear, I asked the pastor if there are any electrical instruments at all in his church. There are plenty of churches that don’t use any electrical equipment other than sound systems and some don’t use those either. Of course his church has an electric organ; electric guitar(s) and a keyboard are acceptable. He was kind enough to stay and continue the discussion after this minor challenge to probe his extended ideas of faith.
“We don’t speak in tongues, that’s not Bible,” he said trying to probe my ideas of Christian faith more. That’s quite a blunt statement to make when you don’t really know how a listener believes about such a topic. At this point the pastor was making assumptions about my beliefs based on vague previous answers to his questions. He went on to give scripture references for his point to which I did not counter. I don’t have any Biblical reason to confirm or deny his belief about tongues. Compared to reconciliation to God, such subjects are minor. My goal as a witness of faith in Jesus Christ for all people is to major on the majors and minor on the minors. To me, that means any implication that anything other than Christ’s action having saved us is contradictory to His good news (the gospel of free and clear blood-bought redemption).
This topic of tongues, as well as many other topics, is used as vices and strongholds in a majority of Christian circles. There is a thin line between believing something and riding the line to use it as a test of faith and fellowship. What a great disservice denominations, faith-based organizations, and even Christians in secular education have done to the cause of Christ by highlighting the minors of the Bible as tests of faith and fellowship. Yes, I believe in tongues in an array of ways. The same Christian Bible as used by those who do not believe in tongues describes them. But I can serve God among a mixture of those who do and do not speak in tongues without a test of fellowship better than with anyone who requires such pro or con beliefs to participate or be excluded.
Of course, all of this didn’t come up in our “door-to-door” talk. It would have been more than inappropriate. But somehow such a brief encounter feels like it leaves both of us feeling sort of empty. It’s like it didn’t bring us any closer together with our shared faith in Christ. I had never met this pastor before (that I know of) which is sort of rare for me in my hometown area. With prayerful thought I do recognize something that was accomplished though. Not so surprisingly, when there is some kind of amount of authentic faith shared between believers, no matter how different some beliefs might be, there is evidence of the Fruit of God’s Spirit. Patience and the kindness that comes through the Fruit of the Spirit were most prevalent between us (Galatians 5).
Galatians 5:
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
I can relate to this visitor’s ideals and line-walking witness because I grew up around them; even if it was in a different denomination. But I can relate to the kinder part of how he handled his part of the conversation better, because that’s how my dad’s faith in Christ taught me to be. It’s also why I am inclusive and affirming of all people who have interest in faith in Christ. And this kind of faith-based consideration for ALL people is a form of what I call Unidiversal Christian Faith.
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