Why look for a church?
Church attendance is not required to have faith in God. However, it can be a big boost to growing faith and better living. Hebrews 10:25 tells Christians that we shouldn’t forsake the assembling of ourselves together. It goes on to explain the reason for assembling together: to encourage one another in faith.
On one hand, churches usually:
- are an excellent source of social interaction and support
- enjoy corporate worship and Bible study
- can be a benefit to surrounding communities and outreach
Without these things it can be very difficult for even the most sincere believer to remain strong in faith, maintain an encouraging outlook, and be a witness of the love of God to the world as we are called to do.
On the other hand, some churches:
- seem to know it all and have no room for others to give and share their unique gifts
- tend to make people feel worse about themselves rather than better
- tell people how to disconnect from God better than how to know God more
What to look for in a Church
The church you might be interested in regularly attending depends mostly on what your beliefs and interests for involvement are. At some point you may find a church that you think you might be interested in attending on a permanent basis. Most churches require some form of acknowledgement, registration, or membership for long term involvement.
One of the best suggestions I can make for your search is to attend all assemblies of a church of interest consistently for several months before deciding to make it your permanent home church. Attend classes, including membership classes if available, social events, get to know and talk with other attendees and leadership, find out why they made it their home church, what other churches they’ve attended and how long. All of these things can highlight signs that will affect your longevity and future involvement. Go in with your eyes wide open and don’t let personal relationships with other attendees make your choices for you.
1st Rule of Thumb
This leads us to the first rule of thumb of church involvement: if you don’t thoroughly believe in the church you are attending then the church will not be a persistent strength to your faith and life Churches are to be human involvements with faith in God to lead their endeavors. Human involvement means that they will not be perfect. I suggest that any church of people, especially leadership, who claim to be perfect in or of their own ability, is not a church to return to. The reason for this suggestion is Romans 3:10 teaching that there is none righteous, not one. A church, as with any group or organization, is the product of the collective ideas of all people involved. How people choose to interpret scripture decides how the church follows God’s leading.
2nd Rule of Thumb
The second rule of thumb of church involvement is: if you don’t thoroughly believe in the church you are attending then you will not be a persistent strength to other’s faith and life there either. Please realize that your faith grows by being an encouragement and strength to others. Some people attend church with themselves more than others in mind and become a hindrance rather than a help to the church. Next to prioritizing God, loving others as ourselves is primary in our relationship with God. God establishes authorities and if you don’t thoroughly believe in the authority without trying to change it then find a church to be a part of that you don’t need to change. Many churches have met their doom because of people attending who don’t believe in the church. If a church should not exist in its current state, then it will cease without anyone’s concerted effort.
Pray about any church you consider for permanent involvement and pray for it at every opportunity once you commit. Churches need your prayer, you never know if or when people, civil laws, or media may negatively affect your church. The strength of the faith your church has in God is the only thing that will keep it standing through adverse circumstances. If your church doesn’t go through adverse circumstances then follow the pastors’ lead, get involved, and watch the enemy of God try to pull the church apart. The enemy is not the people doing his bidding but the principals and powers that are leading them. If you are following God then His enemy will get agitated at you and your church, but it is also exciting to watch how much more powerful God is than His enemy.